This fictionalized memoir
reads more like a series of neighborly chats at the checkout queue of the local
Sainsbury’s, with the focus of the week being one of three alternating points:
1) sisterly bonding; 2) 20th century Ukrainian history; and 3) a
generous helping of Judge Judy. All in
all, I thought Marina’s writing style was “cute and entertaining.” It’s a harmless book that can be read quickly
or intermittently as the mood suits one.
I will recommend it to my sister, who wouldn’t miss a Judge Judy
episode; she loves the sheer crassness of those who would seek J.J.’s
opinion/decision. My Slavic friends (in
my age group) are all fervent, nationalistic slaves to polka dancing. They will pour over this book with serious,
critical attention. For those more
modern American friends of mine, the 99%, I’d recommend it to the women in my
age group. The family
bonding/understanding issue is far bigger and certainly more important that
what was attempted in this chin-wag book.
Nonetheless, it at least brings up the point that “older sister” maybe
has some insights into the family history/dynamic from which younger sister was
sheltered.
So, the undisclosed factor
in my soft handling of this book is that my college 4th year roommate, and 5th
year (I switched from engineering to Math, Physics, & German) best friend
was known as Oleks Rudenko. That was
1959-60 thru 61: the University of Arizona at Tucson. Oleks was a young
teenager during the German offensive East (1941) and subsequent retreat West (1944). He had joined the partisans for Ukrainian
independence as a runner early on. He
was captured by the Germans and sent back as a worker. In 1945, he was free as a 17-year old
survivor to roam Germany with a band of like-thinking ex-patriots. He had wild tales to tell of commandeered
jeeps, teen-aged adventures, smiling American GIs with cigarettes, food, and
gasoline. He came across to America in
1948; worked to make money, learn English (badly, but it served him well in
50’s America) and also enough to get into college. I stayed with Oleks and his wife eight years
later (1968) when he was finally settling down and I was starting graduate
school.
I danced a lot of polkas in
those days with the Slavic graduate student clubs; learned a lot of Eastern
European history. I hope that Oleks
found peace with the dissolution of the Soviet Union: I don’t know; I lost contact in the eighties. I hope he got to go back.
The causes never die.