This fictionalized memoir
reads more like a series of neighborly chats at the checkout queue of the local
Sainsbury’s, with the focus of the week being one of three alternating points:
1) sisterly bonding; 2) 20th century Ukrainian history; and 3) a
generous helping of Judge Judy. All in
all, I thought Marina’s writing style was “cute and entertaining.” It’s a harmless book that can be read quickly
or intermittently as the mood suits one.
I will recommend it to my sister, who wouldn’t miss a Judge Judy
episode; she loves the sheer crassness of those who would seek J.J.’s
opinion/decision. My Slavic friends (in
my age group) are all fervent, nationalistic slaves to polka dancing. They will pour over this book with serious,
critical attention. For those more
modern American friends of mine, the 99%, I’d recommend it to the women in my
age group. The family
bonding/understanding issue is far bigger and certainly more important that
what was attempted in this chin-wag book.
Nonetheless, it at least brings up the point that “older sister” maybe
has some insights into the family history/dynamic from which younger sister was
sheltered.
So, the undisclosed factor
in my soft handling of this book is that my college 4th year roommate, and 5th
year (I switched from engineering to Math, Physics, & German) best friend
was known as Oleks Rudenko. That was
1959-60 thru 61: the University of Arizona at Tucson. Oleks was a young
teenager during the German offensive East (1941) and subsequent retreat West (1944). He had joined the partisans for Ukrainian
independence as a runner early on. He
was captured by the Germans and sent back as a worker. In 1945, he was free as a 17-year old
survivor to roam Germany with a band of like-thinking ex-patriots. He had wild tales to tell of commandeered
jeeps, teen-aged adventures, smiling American GIs with cigarettes, food, and
gasoline. He came across to America in
1948; worked to make money, learn English (badly, but it served him well in
50’s America) and also enough to get into college. I stayed with Oleks and his wife eight years
later (1968) when he was finally settling down and I was starting graduate
school.
I danced a lot of polkas in
those days with the Slavic graduate student clubs; learned a lot of Eastern
European history. I hope that Oleks
found peace with the dissolution of the Soviet Union: I don’t know; I lost contact in the eighties. I hope he got to go back.
The causes never die.
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ReplyDeleteHello, my name is Isabelle and I'm Oleks's granddaughter. I'm 12 yrs old and live with my parents in GA. I was researching my grandfather online and came came across your article. My grandmother is currently visiting us and would like me to inform you that yes he did get go back in 1995 and took my grandmother along. He was reunited with his family in which he had not seen in over 50 yrs. He returned a second time without my grandmother in 1998. He brought with him 7 suitcases full of supplies such as coats, hats, clothing, food, candies and trinkets for the relatives. Unfortunately his health did not allow him to return a 3rd time. They moved to Oklahoma in order for my Deduce to go to graduate school and lived in that area for 29 yrs then moved the to Phoenix area. They resided there for many years but by 2012 my grandmother needed some help with my Deduce and would not put him in a nursing home so they moved back to Tennessee to be closer to family. I am sorry to say that this past December he passed away due to 4 heart conditions, Parkinson-ism, and Alzheimer's. My grandmother would very much like to reconnect with you. My Deduce lovingly shared the wonderful times you guys shared together an told us many stories of the fun you shared. If you are interested in contacting my grandmother we would very much appreciate that. You can contact her at katherinerudenko@outlook.com or contact me at frzzyizzy2001@hotmail.com or mcwhortorisabelle@gmail.com Thank you!
ReplyDeletesincerely,
Isabelle (Oleks's grandaughter)
I accidentally ran across the name Rudenko and was moved to look up the name of someone from my own past: Oleks Rudenko. The information I have found regarding your late grandfather is sparse regarding the time I am interested in, so I can't tell if I'm thinking of the same gentleman. Do you know if your grandfather taught Russian in a Tucson high school in the 1964-66 range?
DeleteI know you wrote this comment four years ago, but I thought it might be worth a try to respond here.
Regards,
J. B. Levin (Catalina H.S. '66)